Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Little Love Wishes

I don't think I have met anyone who truly desires to spend their lives alone.  People may feel called to be abstinent  or life circumstances like divorce or death loss may create experiences of loneliness   And some people unintentionally continually end up alone.  But I am inclined to believe that simply choosing to be alone-without any desires to connect with another human being-is rare.

We are human beings after all!  We long to feel a physical connection with someone else.  We have emotional urges and desires to connect intellectually, emotionally, spiritually.  We have physical urges.  We have sexual urges.  They can be primal, natural, and ever persistent if left unfulfilled (and even when completely satisfied).  

There is something about being face to face with someone, looking into their eyes, seeing their smile, feeling their warmth when you press your body against theirs.  It can be explained scientifically, psychologically, spiritually.  And what it comes down to is the fact that humans seek out and belong around other human beings.

Have you ever hugged someone so tightly and connected with them so greatly that after they leave, you can still smell their perfume or cologne and you can still imagine what it feels like to have them in your arms?

Have you ever been kissed so gently yet so passionately that just the thought of having the experience with them again sends chills up your spine and butterflies in your stomach?

Have you ever laughed so much with someone that your body aches and you still smile while remembering the feeling you shared?

Have you ever been so nervous, yet so excited to think of this person, see this person, be with this person, that it's hard to contain your goosebumps and permanent grin?

If so, you may find yourself smiling more often.  Your heart beat skips a little when you think of them.  You feel incredibly nervous and excited all at the same time.  You lose your breath just a little...

It may not be love. But we all want it and wish for it and hope it gets there soon.

More love wishes:

Finding someone who inspires you to be a better person.
Finding someone who accepts you for you.
Finding someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
Finding someone who is loving and trustworthy.
Finding someone who is worthwhile.
Finding your soulmate.
Growing old with that someone.
Building dreams with that someone.
Raising a family with that someone.
Writing and living never ending love stories with that someone.

May all of your love stories and wishes come true! <3

xoxoxo Le Renee







1 comment:

  1. Your words are very true and actually thought-provoking for a single person like me.

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