Sunday, April 21, 2013

Flirt in the Space Between: Romantic Ideas To Show Them You Care

In new relationships, it's common for periods of time to go by in between dates. Projects at work or school can get busier and that special person in your life may be pulled away from spending extra time with you at the moment.  Don't get discouraged and don't let those sexy sparks between you two dissipate!  Channel your inner hopeless and timeless romantic to show that special person how you are thinking about them and that you care.  This is the time to really make an effort to display some of those feelings you are having about them by stepping out of the box and letting them know what they are meaning to you!

Remember your conversations or how they acted on your dates.  What were the things that they shared with you? What are they passionate about?  What do they do to relax?  What kinds of things do they wish they had more time to do in their free time?  What are their favorite things?  What gestures would mean the most to them?

Think about Breakfast at Tiffany's and engraving a cracker-jack ring.  It doesn't have to be extravagant, just thoughtful!  

Noticing these little things about them and showing them that you not only listened, but also cared enough about them to remember details about them will definitely keep heating things up between you two!

Here are a few ideas to get you started:


Bring them a single rose with a lovely note that tells them how much they matter to you.

Drop off a copy of their favorite book with something you signed on the first page.

Bring them a bottle of their favorite champagne or a bottle of wine from the brand you two shared on a date.


Order lunch for them and have it delivered at work. Better yet...deliver it yourself! :)

Stop by with a latte or espresso and a love note written on the disposable cup.

Make them a cd from songs that played while you two spent time together.  Or make a playlist on your ipod for them to borrow. (Returning it to you is another chance for them to see you...)

Leave them a sweet card at their door.

Rent a few good movies to drop off. Who knows, maybe they will invite you in to watch them! ;-)

Bring over doggie treats or kitty treats if they have animals.

Make them a gift that symbolizes something from a date you have had together.  

Win her heart by bringing her a Love It sized bowl of chocolaty goodness from Coldstone or a frozen yogurt place.  A girl loves her chocolate, especially when she is stressed!  A hug from you + chocolate= the cure for everything...

Drop off something for their child or children if they have them like a family game or something you have heard them talk about loving.

Give an inexpensive gift card to their favorite store so they can do a little "me" shopping. Even better-maybe you can go together.  

Bring them a delicious muffin or something sweet for breakfast.

Share a photo of the two of you.

Send a save the date invitation to a special date you have planned when they are free.

Offer to make them dinner.

The simplest way you can show them you care is to start off each day sending texts that let them know they are the first thing you think of when you wake up and the last thing on your mind as you drift off into your dreams.

Just remember that doing something is better than doing nothing and if this person is special to you, a little effort will make all the difference in your blossoming relationship!

Share your romantic ideas with Le Renee below!



In love,

xoxoxo Le Renee






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